• Kefla [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    3 days ago

    Just depends on your baseline horny level I think. To people like you and me it seems weird and obsessive, but some people are just horny all the time and would happily treat every aspect of their life as sexual if they had the opportunity. (And some of them do, that’s how some of those hardcore bdsm kink-as-a-lifestyle people are) When they cum, it might make them more physically tired but it doesn’t make them any less psychologically horny.

    Personally it sounds like hell to me

    • LanyrdSkynrd [comrade/them, any]@hexbear.net
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      3 days ago

      I have difficulty understanding that level of horniness.

      I had a coworker who spent 90% of his time trying to sleep with people. Just constantly trying to do the apps, chatting random people up, dates 5 nights a week. He was also juggling a wife and 100’s of lies that allowed him to be doing 5 dates a week and midday hookups with people who don’t know about the other people.

      Obviously scumbag shit, but also it seems so exhausting and pointless. Like you do all that and all you get are some orgasms?

      • CthulhusIntern [he/him]@hexbear.net
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        PUAs like that tend to hate women, because they’re exhausted hanging out with women they don’t care about and don’t like (because they have nothing in common with those particular women) and they just think all women are like that.

        Meanwhile, there’s another type of guy who hooks up a lot, but it’s mostly with friends or friends of friends. That guy usually seems quite happy and actually likes those people.