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  • gingerbrat [she/her]@hexbear.netM
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    and arguing with Dems on Facebook

    Time consuming work indeed lol. Happy to hear you’re hanging in there Roux, take care of yourself, and we love you too!

    • roux [they/them, xe/xem]@hexbear.netM
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      I think I’m finally over the hump on my shitty end to 2025. Hoping to focus on the band project hard over the next 6 or so months because I really wanna start playing out by summer.

      The Dems are really coming out of the woodwork with my takes on how maybe the US was wrong on trying to depose of Maduro. shocked-pikachu

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        I’m really looking forward to you finally being able to play out. Really hope it works out and that you can put the last year behind you for good. Keep going, roux, I’m proud of you Care-Comrade

        I can imagine lol