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  • TheSpectreOfGay [hy/hym, she/her]@hexbear.net
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    8 days ago

    feel like im getting burnout again, but the only cause i can think of is the world just being genuinely awful. even if my own conditions are sort of okay right now i hyper empathize with other people so much that this is just gonna be a constant for the rest of my life huh catgirl-flop

    • mendiCAN [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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      6 days ago

      yeah it sucks but can you imagine not hyper empathizing? i don’t think I’d press if you put that button in front of me, even though it is often painful i get sick when i see a lack of empathy and thinking that could ever be me is disgusting

      • TheSpectreOfGay [hy/hym, she/her]@hexbear.net
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        6 days ago

        yea i dont think i want to NOT be hyper empathetic, just like i don’t want to not be a communist, but sometimes i look at people who only care for themselves and live fairly comfortably and get a bit envious

        which i know is stupid bc the moment something goes bad for them they’re cooked, but lmao