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  • Keld [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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    7 days ago

    My mom took half my meds so I have a stash for them i visit her, so now I have to buy new meds. She offered to pay for them but when I told her what they cost now, she got mad that I hadn’t haggled with the pharmacy So now she wants me to sign a thing a thing that lets my sister buy meds for me because she’s “a good negotiator”. My sister doesn’t wanna do it.

    You can’t haggle with the pharmacy mom, you know, this you used to buy my meds.

      • Keld [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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        6 days ago

        You see their prices were unreasonable, surely they could cut me a deal or something, right? I think she just remembers my meds being way cheaper and thinks I’m fucking up somehow.

        Honestly I should be able to say “I’m only gonna pay 50% of that, you get to keep the box” since they doubled my prices the last year and put it in a nicer box.

        • mendiCAN [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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          6 days ago

          lol youre preachin to the choir. id love to lay into some suite level pharmaloser. id do it with no expectation of discount, just to let em know where they stand.

          mmm what a nice daydream