“…our society is only pro-disability until you scratch the surface…[making] it inevitable that many people with disability become cornered and tired and silenced. From then on, it’s a matter of applying common sense; people who are cornered and tired and silenced are often riddled with self doubt or self hatred. It takes time and a conscious effort of will to overcome those things…Without pride in ourselves we cannot create pride in those around us…Like becoming that person with multiple labels, goals and ambitions, becoming a better society for people with disability is not a one-shot process. It’s going to take a long time and a lot of thought. The first step is to recognise all our contradictions, traumas and mistakes. The second step is to stop hating them.”


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