I never really felt much of a connection with this guy, despite sticking it out for over a year with him. Hes very insistent that I take almost 3 hours out of my day to do in person visits and has threatened to charge me as a cancelation if I still demanded virtual, I haven’t felt the ability to be honest with him about larger issues than what I discuss, and frankly I would get nervous to talk to him before a lot of sessions. I had a therapist before that I connected with better, but that was 3 years ago almost and I had to stop when I lost my last job.
Im already in the process of getting back with my past therapist, who seemed much warmer to me. When I had to stop seeing her, i cried, whereas with this guy, I’m nervous he’ll try to talk me out of dropping him.
On the bus to go do it now, send me your good vibes pls
It sucked and they said some really hurtful shit to me, but yeah we’re done now and I’m going back to someone I like better.
Glad to hear it. I find it so weird the way people on reddit kiss therapists’ arses and think therapy just magically fixes everything. Hexbear is the only place where people are realistic and accept that many therapists are worse than useless and that therapy isn’t a magic bullet for everything.