I never really felt much of a connection with this guy, despite sticking it out for over a year with him. Hes very insistent that I take almost 3 hours out of my day to do in person visits and has threatened to charge me as a cancelation if I still demanded virtual, I haven’t felt the ability to be honest with him about larger issues than what I discuss, and frankly I would get nervous to talk to him before a lot of sessions. I had a therapist before that I connected with better, but that was 3 years ago almost and I had to stop when I lost my last job.
Im already in the process of getting back with my past therapist, who seemed much warmer to me. When I had to stop seeing her, i cried, whereas with this guy, I’m nervous he’ll try to talk me out of dropping him.
On the bus to go do it now, send me your good vibes pls
That is shitty and manipulative. Ive had one session with a manipulative one too. In just that first session he felt he could tell me what i was feeling, what i wanted, why i was there… the guy barely knew me, and he was quite persuasive. Good thing i was thinking fast enough that day to see through the bullshit.
Glad to see youre getting out of there!
Appreciate it, thanks homie!